Ruby Rose, the DJ-turned-actress-turned-allegedly-fake-DJ, has taken to Instagram to voice her concern over whiplash that Taylor Swift has endured following her split with Calvin Harris.
And while Harris is reportedly already working on a “breakup song,” Swift has faced heavy criticism from fans after quickly moving into a very public relationship with Tom Hiddleston, best known for playing the character Loki in the Thor and Avengers franchises.
Ruby Rose finds this criticism unwarranted, although Calvin would beg to differ, and she goes on quite the rant about it in this lengthy post below. While Rose has a good point about the heart wanting what the heart wants, it’s impossible for anyone outside of a relationship to speak assertively on a subject matter as sensitive as this – especially when all involved have achieved a high level of celebrity fame and little is left to their private lives.
What do you think?
I feel like this is the mentality fans have on celebrity relationships.. I get it that they invest in couples and root for them and it’s sweet, but that relationship is still only between two people. If the relationship ends why do people assume something happened or someone is to blame? Why do they think they know anything about the relationship to be able to make a better call than those in it? Love is a beautiful thing. Some love one person their whole life, others love many, some never find love, and sadly some get so hurt so many times they get broken and stop looking. So if a woman moves on from a relationship 8 months ( or 2 weeks ) after a breakup isn’t that beautiful? That someone can still continue to open their hearts to people despite times in their lives I’m sure it’s been broken.. It’s not an insult to every ex they have ever had…new love never erases old love. It’s a separate thing, a new entity. You can’t change the people you loved just be glad you loved at all they are all lessons and memories and make up our life story. I personally respect all of the people who never get jaded, who always love with their whole hearts. Over and over and I think it’s twisted that we shame women for opening their hearts or label it as a weakness when in reality it’s one of the scariest things to do. Date who you want, love who you want, love is the most valuable thing in the world and nothing comes remotely close to its significance during our time on this planet. So next time you want to tell me who I should be with or who anyone should be with… Maybe just use that energy to find your love. Because trust me.. We are adults and we know how to follow our hearts.